These pages feature articles and shorter items recording investigations into the teaching of the Buddha by groups and individuals.
'Dhamma' can be interpreted in several ways, meaning for example, 'the teaching of the Buddha' or 'the truth'.
The contributions mostly concern matters related to samatha-vipassanā practice and the Therevāda tradition but are by no-means limited to these.
THE ELEMENTAL SELF
Ayya Khema was a German-born Buddhist nun, teacher and author who among many other achievements set up the International Buddhist Women’s Centre and Parappudua Nuns’ Island in Sri Lanka. She was spiritual director of Buddhaus retreat centre in Germany, and her numerous publications include ‘Being nobody, going nowhere’ and ‘Who is my self?’ Many of her talks and articles are available at www.accesstoinsight.org .
The following is an edited version of Ayya Khema’s dhamma talk “Contemplation on the Four Great Elements” and is reproduced with permission of Buddha-Haus, Germany, © Buddha-haus (buddha-haus.de).
The article includes a meditation on the four elements.
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Everything consists of the four primary elements: earth, fire, water, and air. Observing the presence of all four of these elements within us, or even just one of them, can be an important way of recognizing how our individual composition is the same as the composition of the rest of the universe. This may be an intellectual understanding at first, but eventually, with practice, it can become a feeling—one of being exactly the same as everything around us.
Anything that we can touch has the earth element: our body—our flesh, bones, and hair; the ground; even water. We humans, reliant as we are upon what we can see and touch are most concerned with this earth element, particularly as it relates to the body. The body should have the right shape, the right colour, the right age, and the right abilities. But really our bodies are nothing more than an assortment of components that are found throughout the universe.
The fire element indicates temperature—warm or cold—and the capacity to digest or to eat. Our margin of comfort for internal temperatures— between 60 and 80 degrees Fahrenheit—is rather small. According to some Buddhist traditions, however, we can expand our comfort level and open ourselves up to the realization that our body contains all temperatures.
The water element implies not only water but also blood, urine, sweat, tears, and so on. It’s also the binding element: it makes things hang together. If you add water to flour, for instance, you get dough. Adult human bodies are composed up to 60 percent of water; if they weren’t, the cells would probably wander around separately, because there would be no binding element.
And last but not least, the air element refers to the body’s breath, wind, and movement. Whenever we move, it’s as though the wind has taken over. Even when we walk, we can see that we are dispersing air and creating movement, however subtle.
When we meditate on these four primary elements in ourselves and in the outer world, we no longer feel threatened by external forces or situations, because we recognize that everything, and everyone, is composed of these same four elements. We see that there are no distinctions between one and the other, and are thereby able to realize the complete oneness of existence and manifestation. Without the feeling of separation from the rest of the world, we also lose the need to strain and stress to be better, more clever, or more accomplished. We can start to just be. That’s all there is to it.
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Here’s how to practice meditation on the four elements:
First, put your attention on the breath for just a moment.
Then, feel the solidity—the earth element—of your body. Touch your hands or your knees, or feel your mouth where the lips meet. Feel the bones throughout your body, the skin above them, and notice the subtle pressure of the eyelids on the eyes.
Let that feeling of solidity flow into and merge with the earth element of the cushion that you sit on. Then become aware of the earth element in the soles of your feet and in the floor or mat. Again, let the two earth elements merge.
Now imagine that you are going to walk outside. With each step that you take, the earth element in your feet merges with the earth element of the floor you walk on. You walk to the door, and as you put your hand on the doorknob, the earth element in the palm of your hand merges and flows into the earth element of the door, which you now open.
Imagine walking outside, your feet merging with the literal earth beneath you. You walk over to the nearest tree and lean back against its trunk, allowing your body to merge with its solidity. No separation.
Visualize yourself continuing to walk outside and coming upon a stream. You put your hand into the stream and feel the water’s solidity pressing against your fingers, recognizing that this solidity is what allows boats to float and fish to swim.
You look up at the sky and let your body’s earth element flow into the clouds, which have their own solidity. There’s no division, no separation—only merging. To one side you see a friend, whose body also contains the earth element, and you both observe that shared experience.
Now come back to your immediate surroundings and return to the breath. In this second exercise, focus your awareness on the temperature in your body. Some parts may be warm; other parts may be cold. What is the temperature of the cushion or chair you’re sitting on? In the same way as before, let the two—the warmth or coolness in yourself and in your seat—merge together. Do the same with your feet on the floor. Become aware of the temperature in the soles of your feet and the temperature of the floor. Let them become one.
Go through the same imagination exercise as before—walking to the door, going outside, leaning against the tree, touching the water, looking at the sky, and seeing a friend—but do so with your focus placed on the fire element. Feel the temperature of the earth, the water, and the sunshine in the air. Imagine going into the shade, and how that changes your interaction with fire. The coolness touches your body and generates feeling. The shade and you yourself are not separate.
Now go to the nearest tree and touch it with your hand, feeling its temperature. Merge your own feeling of warmth with the warmth of the tree, and realize that you’re no longer separate from that tree. Imagine leaning back against the tree, absorbing the warmth from the sun’s rays or the coolness of the shade and tuning into the fact that you and the tree share the same fire element in the form of temperature.
For each of the two remaining elements, water and air, repeat the steps outlined above, always first tuning into the breath, then focusing in turn on the element of water and air in the body, then imagining yourself navigating the external world of elements. All the while, recognize that you share the experience of that element with everything you encounter—the wet morning dew; dry, crackly leaves; birds zooming through the air; clouds drifting above. Use your sensory imagination to weave a rich tapestry of connection.
With practice, one day we will recognize that all phenomena are composed of and dependent upon the interaction and merging of these four elements. We will realize that all of it—the entire universe—is just one continuous manifestation. And that we, ourselves, are no different.
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THE FOUR FOUNDATIONS OF MINDFULNESS
AN INVESTIGATION BY MEMBERS OF THE WILMSLOW GROUP AND OTHERS, SPRING 2020
“This is the only way, monks, for the purification of beings, for the overcoming of sorrow and lamentation, for the destruction of suffering and grief, for reaching the right path, for the attainment of Nibbana, namely, the four foundations of mindfulness.”
The group dedicated its weekly meetings over an extended period to exploring the topic of mindfulness, based on the Satipatthāna Sutta. The regular members of the group were augmented by some meditators connected to other groups.
The work was guided by a text written by Sri Lankan monk and author Bhante Gunaratana Henepola, entitled ‘The Four Foundations of Mindfulness in Plain English’.
Members of the group were encouraged to investigate each aspect of the four foundations in a practical way, by observing their everyday experiences and reporting their findings.
The project started with normal meetings a few weeks before the arrival of the coronavirus problem, and continued online to its conclusion. This had an effect on the nature of the proceedings, not least by ensuring 100% attendance once it went virtual!
In more detail, each of the four foundations in turn comprises:
• Body – the breath, the four postures, mindfulness with clear comprehension, reflection on the 32 parts of the body, the four elements and the nine cemetery contemplations.
• Feelings – pleasant, unpleasant or neutral, as experienced through sensations or emotions.
• Mind – greedy or not greedy, hateful or not hateful, deluded or not deluded, contracted or distracted, not developed or developed, not supreme or supreme, not concentrated or concentrated, not liberated or liberated.
• Dhamma – the five hindrances, the five aggregates of clinging, the six internal and six external sense bases, the seven factors of enlightenment, the four noble truths and the noble eightfold path.
Following contemplation, practical investigation and discussion at each stage of the course, understanding and insights arose in various ways. A full record of the course’s progress would be too lengthy to reproduce here, so a selection of the more outstanding points is given. Quotations are from the text.
The word ‘mindfulness’ is very familiar to Samatha meditators, and can be interpreted in many ways – awareness, presence, awakening, in-the-moment consciousness, etc. The common experience seems to be that we can only practise mindfulness when we remember to – we need to remember to remember!
Various techniques can be deployed to do this, most commonly associated with the body and the senses. Examples are noticing and more closely observing the objects we handle, paying closer attention to routine activities like preparing and eating food, and being more attentive to our interactions with other people, particularly speech and body language (Right Speech being one stage of the Noble Eightfold Path).
The five faculties (indriya) – faith balanced with wisdom, effort balanced with concentration, and mindfulness connecting all of these – all feature in the process of watching the breath.
The five aggregates (khandas) – form, feeling, perceptions, mental formations and consciousness – also come into play.
The four elements are present in the breath – earth in the physical body that breathes, water in the breath’s fluidity, air in the breath’s movement, fire in the breath’s energy and temperature.
Throughout, there is impermanence (anicca). The quality of breath is ever changing; we breathe around 18,000 times each waking day and no single breath is ever the same.
Meditators found it helpful to be reminded of the importance of correct posture in sitting, and to give renewed attention to standing and walking practice.
The sutta also refers to mindfulness with clear comprehension, which cuts across all the aggregates and which can be applied most easily in everyday activities such as eating – watching how much we eat, how quickly, our composure, and avoiding simultaneous activities and mental distractions while eating.
“When we are attached, even pleasantly so, we are not mindful, and thus we are vulnerable to suffering. When we are free from desire, although the entire universe continues to change, we do not suffer.”
In the Buddha’s teachings, feeling (vedanā) includes both physical sensations and mental emotions, and each can be pleasant, unpleasant or neutral. The three kinds of feeling can be experienced through any of the six senses, which include the mind, giving eighteen possibilities, and these can all arise as physical sensations or internally generated emotions, making thirty-six variations. Applied to past, present and future, a total of 108 kinds of feelings can be distinguished!
Feelings arise initially from sense contact, but it is at the point where mental perceptions, interpretations and reactions occur that skilfulness is most needed. Sights and sounds may enter the senses, but it is mental activity that turns them into upsets, annoyance or anger. For this reason we are advised to ‘guard the sense doors’; applied mindfulness is the key to ensuring that when feelings arise they do not automatically lead to negative responses.
The sutta refers to consciousness, and we usually speak of the activity of the mind simply as ‘thoughts’. The Buddha warned his monks to avoid too much thinking, saying ‘when the mind is strained it is far from concentration’, and advised them to meditate.
Attempting to control the mind and its constant flow of thoughts is part of the process of meditation and for most it is a difficult struggle, often compared to the attempt to control a wild animal, such as a tiger, elephant or monkey.
The best results tended to come from a more detached, accepting approach that recognises this difficulty and works patiently with simply observing and noting thoughts as they occur. More peaceful outcomes came by remembering not to follow or resist thoughts and by recognising that, like all phenomena, thoughts are impermanent and pass away with time.
Recalling and practising the divine abidings ( Brahma Vihāras ) became very important in this context. The need to apply loving kindness (metta), compassion (karunā), sympathetic joy (mudita) and equanimity (upekkhā) towards oneself proved most helpful in maintaining the effort to deal with thoughts, both during meditation practice and in everyday life.
‘Dhamma’ can be interpreted in various way such as ‘the teachings’, ‘truth’ or ‘phenomena’. In the sutta it is given as ‘contemplation of mental objects.’ Foremost here are the five hindrances – sense desire, ill will, sloth & torpor, agitation and doubt. These are well known to every meditator, but a period of closer examination on this course threw up many new realisations. In the simile given in the quotation above, removing the hindrances is akin to removing weeds and obstructions on the surface of the ground.
The hindrances here are followed by the five aggregates of clinging, meaning identification with the khandas as ‘my body, my feelings’ etc. Clinging to these ideas means attachment to the idea of a permanent self, specifically denied by the teaching of anatta. Continuing the simile, abandoning the idea of self allows us to start digging and uproot anything that will impede wholesome growth.
Mindfulness of Dhamma in the sutta and in the text ends with contemplation of the seven factors of enlightenment and the four noble truths, the last of which being the noble eightfold path. Completing the garden analogy, this is seen as the point where understanding and wisdom can begin to grow.
They are clearly major areas of study within themselves, deserving further investigation over future courses and remaining lifetimes!
Throughout the course a single word was chosen most weeks, resulting either from experiential findings or discussions around a particular topic. These led to further insights and opportunities to examine skilful and unskilful behaviour.
At the end of the course, participants presented their findings in various different formats. Several speak for themselves, others include commentary based on oral contributions delivered at the time.
At a time of great fear and anxiety, it may be comforting to ‘go back to basics’ and reflect on one of the Buddha’s most fundamental teachings.
The Brahma Vihāras (sublime states, or divine abidings) are four qualities that remind us of our common humanity and the importance of purifying the heart.
The qualities are Mettā, loving kindness, Karunā, compassion, Muditā, sympathetic joy, and Upekkhā, equanimity. The first three relate directly to the way we connect with other living beings, while the last in an internal process that indirectly pervades all aspects of our external behaviour.
There could be no better guidelines to help us through difficult times.
The Basic Passage on the Four Sublime States from the Discourses of the Buddha
I. Here, monks, a disciple dwells pervading one direction with his heart filled with loving-kindness, likewise the second, the third, and the fourth direction; so above, below and around; he dwells pervading the entire world everywhere and equally with his heart filled with loving-kindness, abundant, grown great, measureless, free from enmity and free from distress.
II. Here, monks, a disciple dwells pervading one direction with his heart filled with compassion, likewise the second, the third and the fourth direction; so above, below and around; he dwells pervading the entire world everywhere and equally with his heart filled with compassion, abundant, grown great, measureless, free from enmity and free from distress.
III. Here, monks, a disciple dwells pervading one direction with his heart filled with sympathetic joy, likewise the second, the third and the fourth direction; so above, below and around; he dwells pervading the entire world everywhere and equally with his heart filled with sympathetic joy, abundant, grown great, measureless, free from enmity and free from distress.
IV. Here, monks, a disciple dwells pervading one direction with his heart filled with equanimity, likewise the second, the third and the fourth direction; so above, below and around; he dwells pervading the entire world everywhere and equally with his heart filled with equanimity, abundant, grown great, measureless, free from enmity and free from distress.
— Dīgha Nikāya 13
Brahma Viharas Meditation Practice
Generally speaking, persistent meditative practice will have two crowning effects: first, it will make these four qualities sink deep into the heart so that they become spontaneous attitudes not easily overthrown; second, it will bring out and secure their boundless extension, the unfolding of their all-embracing range.
In fact, the detailed instructions given in the Buddhist scriptures for the practice of these four meditations are clearly intended to unfold gradually the boundlessness of the sublime states. They systematically break down all barriers restricting their application to particular individuals or places.
In the meditative exercises, the selection of people to whom the thought of love, compassion or sympathetic joy is directed, proceeds from the easier to the more difficult. For instance, when meditating on loving-kindness, one starts with an aspiration for one's own well-being, using it as a point of reference for gradual extension: "Just as I wish to be happy and free from suffering, so may that being, may all beings be happy and free from suffering!" Then one extends the thought of loving-kindness to a person for whom one has a loving respect, as, for instance, a teacher; then to dearly beloved people, to indifferent ones, and finally to enemies, if any, or those disliked. Since this meditation is concerned with the welfare of the living, one should not choose people who have died; one should also avoid choosing people towards whom one may have feelings of sexual attraction.
After one has been able to cope with the hardest task, to direct one's thoughts of loving-kindness to disagreeable people, one should now "break down the barriers (sīmā-sambheda)". Without making any discrimination between those four types of people, one should extend one's loving-kindness to them equally. At that point of the practice one will have come to the higher stages of concentration: with the appearance of the mental reflex-image (patibhāganimitta), "access concentration" (upacāra samādhi) will have been reached, and further progress will lead to the full concentration (appāna) of the first jhāna, then the higher jhānas.
For spatial expansion, the practice starts with those in one's immediate environment such as one's family, then extends to the neighbouring houses, to the whole street, the town, country, other countries and the entire world. In "pervasion of the directions," one's thought of loving-kindness is directed first to the east, then to the west, north, south, the intermediate directions, the zenith and nadir.
The same principles of practice apply to the meditative development of compassion, sympathetic joy and equanimity, with due variations in the selection of people.
The ultimate aim of attaining these Brahma-vihara-jhanas is to produce a state of mind that can serve as a firm basis for the liberating insight into the true nature of all phenomena, as being impermanent, liable to suffering and unsubstantial. A mind that has achieved meditative absorption induced by the sublime states will be pure, tranquil, firm, collected and free of coarse selfishness. It will thus be well prepared for the final work of deliverance which can be completed only by insight.
The preceding remarks show that there are two ways of developing the sublime states: first by practical conduct and an appropriate direction of thought; and second by methodical meditation aiming at the absorptions. Each will prove helpful to the other. Methodical meditative practice will help love, compassion, joy and equanimity to become spontaneous. It will help make the mind firmer and calmer in withstanding the numerous irritations in life that challenge us to maintain these four qualities in thoughts, words and deeds.
On the other hand, if one's practical conduct is increasingly governed by these sublime states, the mind will harbour less resentment, tension and irritability, the reverberations of which often subtly intrude into the hours of meditation, forming there the "hindrance of restlessness." Our everyday life and thought has a strong influence on the meditative mind; only if the gap between them is persistently narrowed will there be a chance for steady meditative progress and for achieving the highest aim of our practice.
Meditative development of the sublime states will be aided by repeated reflection upon their qualities, the benefits they bestow and the dangers from their opposites. As the Buddha says, "What a person considers and reflects upon for a long time, to that his mind will bend and incline."
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The Suttas, or discourses, formed the basis of the Buddha's teachings to his disciples. There are many thousands of them, some better known than others and some also known as Pali chants as well as written texts. One of the most popular chants at Samatha meetings is the Metta Sutta, which evokes the simple but powerful message of loving kindness, or well-wishing to all beings.
The translation below is taken from the Samatha Chanting Book (there are many different translations.) The Pali chant can be listened to via the 'Explore publications' page on this website.
He who is skilled in welfare, who wishes to attain that calm state (nibbana), should act in this way: he should be able, upright, perfectly upright, of noble speech, gentle and humble.
Contented, easily supported, with few duties, of simple livelihood, with senses calmed, discreet, not impudent, he should not be greedily attached to families.
He should not pursue the slightest thing for which other wise men might blame him.
May all beings be happy and secure, may their hearts be wholesome!
Whatever living beings there be: feeble or strong, tall, stout or medium, short, small or large, without exception; seen or unseen, those dwelling far or near, those who are born or those who are yet to be born, may all beings be happy!
Let one not deceive another, nor despise any person whatsoever, in any place. Let him not wish any harm to another out of anger or ill-will.
Just as a mother would protect her only child at the risk of her own life, even so, let him cultivate a boundless heart towards all beings.
Let his thoughts of boundless love pervade the whole world; above, below and across without any obstruction, without any hatred, without any enmity.
Whether he stands, walks, sits or lies down, as long as he is awake, he should develop his mindfulness. This they say is the noblest living here in this world.
Not falling into wrong views, endowed with sila and insight, by discarding attachments to sense desires, he never again knows rebirth.
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Investigating the nature of Upekkha
In the autumn term of 2018, a group of meditators from various local classes met at the Manchester centre to explore the titular subject over a six-week period.
The Eight Worldly Conditions (sometimes known as Winds or Vicissitudes) were first promulgated by the Buddha in the Lokavipatti Sutta, translated* as “The Failings of the World”. They are named as four pairs of opposites:
• Gain and Loss
• Status and Disgrace
• Censure and Praise
• Pleasure and Pain
The sutta begins by declaring that the eight conditions “spin after the world, and the world spins after them”, which is a way of saying that human life is caught up constantly in them in virtually everything we do. The winds may blow favourably or fiercely – in our perception at least – but they never stop blowing, so everything depends on the way we respond to this metaphorical weather.
The point of the sutta is made clearly and concisely by contrasting the responses of the “uninstructed, run-of-the-mill person” and the “well-instructed disciple of the noble ones” to each of the eight conditions as they arise. It says that the difference between these responses comes down to one thing: the ability to recognise the conditions as “inconstant, stressful and subject to change” – and deal with them accordingly – or not.
As we might expect, the “uninstructed” one fails to discern wisely, instead choosing to welcome the desirable qualities and rebel against the undesirable ones, whereas the “well-instructed” one treats them with equanimity. The former is not released from suffering, the latter is, and “goes beyond.”
The focus of the group was therefore on exploring everyday experiences, during the progress of the course or in recent memory, in order to discern whether these events and their consequences could be seen as “inconstant, stressful and subject to change” in practice, and thereby result in changes to habitual responses. (Many meditators will recognise these three descriptions in other terms as the three signs or characteristics of being, viz. anicca, dukkha, anattā, or impermanence, suffering, not-self.)
It was clear that the quality of Upekkhā (Equanimity) would be central to any exploration of the eight conditions, and that equanimity in turn needed to be viewed in the context of its presence as one of the four Brahma Vihāras (Divine Abidings), viz. Mettā (Loving Kindness), Karunā (Compassion), Muditā (Sympathetic Joy) and Upekkhā (Equanimity).
The order in which these are given is significant in that Mettā is foremost, needing to be practised firstly towards oneself and then towards others. In this investigation, it was seen as crucial to the process of self-examination, particularly in what might be difficult or challenging situations or recollections. Mettā practices were therefore incorporated in the course and participants were advised to maintain Mettā practices and awareness during their investigations.
Upekkhā is given as the fourth Brahma Vihāra since it can be seen as the result of developing the other three, and to incorporate them. The Pali translation is ‘looking over’ meaning to see without being drawn in to what we see. It should not be confused with its “near enemy”, which is indifference, and is best described in the concluding words of the Sutta, where it says:
“The wise person, mindful, ponders these changing conditions. Desirable things don’t charm the mind, undesirable ones bring no resistance”.
Participants were also given a hand-out listing seven mental qualities which support the development of equanimity, viz.
• Virtue, or integrity, enabling blamelessness
• Faith, or confidence, bringing a sense of assurance grounded in wisdom
• A well-developed mind, one that has cultivated calm, concentration and mindfulness
• A sense of wellbeing, by developing loving kindness
• Understanding, or wisdom, in particular the ability to separate people’s actions from who they are
• Insight, or seeing into the nature of things as they are, especially their impermanence
• Freedom, in the sense of letting go of reactive tendencies
INVESTIGATION & FINDINGS
First pair: Gain and Loss
(Win/Acquire/Profit : Forfeit/Deprivation/Grief)
The most obvious manifestation of this pair was seen in terms of material things, money or possessions, and the idea of acquiring and keeping what is “mine”, but it was also seen to relate to relationships and friendships.
It was noted that, in business dealings, ideas of “right” and “wrong” required skilful consideration before being translated into action. Ethical behaviour, while desirable can lead to attachment, while the ability to let go of losses in whatever form can help to avoid dwelling on past actions, often a source of lingering ill-will.
In family relationships, frustration can arise from the behaviour of those we care for, especially when help is offered but refused. Viewing the situation dispassionately and accepting the way it is, wisdom can arise. By gaining understanding one can lose worry.
In a different context, and reflecting a common tendency (among the British at least) to be affected by the external environment, seasonal changes were observed in terms of gain and loss, affecting mood and disposition both positively and negatively. Many thing are not within our control, but our attitude towards them is.
Two quotations from the Dhammpada are relevant:
“ ‘This is my child, this is my wealth’: such thoughts are the preoccupations of fools. If we are unable to own even ourselves, why do we make such claims?” (v.62)
“Contentment is the greatest wealth” (v.204)
Second pair: Status and Disgrace
(Fame/Reputation/Prestige : Shame/Obscurity/Disrepute)
Experiences here were often related to workplace situations – performance reviews, judgements being made of and by others, where the idea of one’s role or position can feel threatened or undermined. The challenge to maintain equanimity can be very strong here, especially where a sense of unfairness prevails.
Metta practice was found to be very helpful, indeed essential, to cope with the bad feelings that arise. Ideas of self-importance or vanity on the one hand or loss of self-esteem and worthlessness on the other can easily arise where one is pulled in either direction.
Although these situation can be very difficult, they can be eased with equanimity. Metta and compassion towards others who may be seen to contribute to one’s problems also helps.
Third pair: Praise and Censure
(Commendation/Reward/Admiration : Blame/Criticism/Reproach)
In some ways this is connected to status and disgrace, being related almost exclusively to opinions expressed by others in a judgemental way. Praise is pleasant to receive but there is a fine balance between skilful acceptance and unskilful attachment, i.e. wanting more. Blame is unpleasant when it is considered unjustified – or even when it is justified – but may be based in truth.
Luang Por Munindo, abbot of Ratanagiri Monastery in Northumberland, notes in his Dhammapāda Reflections, that “The Buddha was blamed and criticized just like everyone else. To seek only praise and fear blame is fruitless. The only blame with which we really need to be concerned is that which is offered by the wise.”
When we receive blame, therefore, the equanimous view is to consider (a) whether it is true or false and (b) where it comes from, and to try and respond with wisdom.
Another point made is that of self-blame, which is a form of ill-will. Making mistakes, having careless accidents, misspeaking and forgetting are everyday examples that most people can relate to, but the unskilfulness is compounded when self-inflicted accusations and recriminations follow. Mindfulness and metta are urgently needed here!
“I should/shouldn’t”, “I must/mustn’t” “I ought/oughtn’t” are powerful thoughts that arise from self-judgement, and which can only create additional suffering when applied critically. Resolving to avoid repetition is skilful only when accompanied by kindness towards ourselves.
Fourth pair: Pleasure and Pain
(Gratification/Success/Elation) : (Disappointment/Failure/Regret)
The teachings tell us that there are only three kinds of feelings: pleasant, unpleasant and neutral. In practice we tend to experience extremes, being elated or overjoyed by such things as new-born children or delight in relatives’ achievements, or in playing or listening to music, where it is easy to become “lost” in the experience.
In contrast, physical pain can require strong resolve to overcome. Bodily pain during sitting practice is quite common, especially among new meditators. Various solutions exist, from experimenting with posture and arrangements of cushions to preparatory physical exercises, and practising Tai Chi or Pilates. Patient persistence works better than grim endurance!
Visits to the dentist seemed to come up as a popular (or unpopular) examples, but on examination were often seen to be about the fear of pain rather than the pain itself. The quotation “Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional” has relevance, and can apply indirectly, for example in the distress caused by witnessing chronic physical pain suffered by loved ones.
Careful investigation can reveal that some pleasures and pains are the fruit of one’s actions, and again that impermanence applies here as in all things – all that arises will at some point cease.
Participant on the course presented their findings in various forms at the final meeting; some were given verbally, some written, some presented visually. They are summarised here:
• This course has helped me to understand myself and to be aware of the origin of different feelings that I have. I can put a name to these feelings and work to minimize the damage.
Also listening others’ experiences or feelings, that in many cases happen to me, it make me feel secure: "I am not the only one"
The big discovery has been equanimity, our protection in everyday issues, very helpful but as well very challenging.
• There is no right or wrong
There is only the skilful
I will do my best to walk the middle way
There is no good without evil
Evil must never be allowed to lead
To achieve this I will use my
Heart, mind, body and soul
Praise yet Blame
Loss yet Gain
Pleasure yet Pain
Fame yet ill-fame
I am the wielder of these states
I accept that I cannot control all aspects
But I can control my response
As these come and go I will respect them in turn
I will greet each one
When they leave I will say farewell without clinging on
I continue to walk my path to my unknown future
I regret nothing as the path I have taken has taught me much
I can pass the baton of knowledge through time
I am truly grateful for what life has on offer
8 worldly winds
I am not free
I have more choice
• Success or calamity – find your balance with equanimity.
• A visual image came to mind, for which I drew a diagram. It took the form of a weighing scale with equanimity as the central balancing point, supported below by loving kindness, compassion and sympathetic joy. The eight worldly conditions can tip the balance either way if they are weighted by attachment, but acceptance can reduce this effect by removing some of the weight. The seven mental qualities act as counterbalancing forces.
• The lessons of the course for me were contained within a single activity, that of making a knitted doll for a young family member. Aiming to please, fearing disappointment, seeking perfection, worrying about failure, feeling satisfaction, self-judging, hanging on, letting go, all eight conditions were there!
• The value of the course has been in deepening my understanding of how the eight conditions arise and the realisation that I have a choice in the way I react to them. Mindfulness is the key to this. In dealing with other people, it was an important realisation that it is possible to separate the person from the words or actions, and that it helps in situations where criticisms or complaints are made not to take thing personally.
The course has begun to change my attitude in dealing with working relationships; where previously there was an inclination towards confrontation and conflict, now there is more acceptance, goodwill and compassion. The former gave rise to negativity, the latter has a more positive and more productive effect.
• I saw the eight worldly conditions visually and created a picture of a rolling wave pattern, with the peaks (represented in brighter colours) as the desirable conditions and the troughs (represented in plainer colours) as the undesirable ones. The Brahma Viharas run across the centre with equanimity highlighted as the inner strength that keeps us balanced in the middle of all that is. Below came the reminder: “All is inconstant, stressful and subject to change.”
• Working with young people, I notice how their modes of communication are highly influenced by graphical images created by modern technology. The emoji is a classic example of this, creating a kind of language of its own where ideas, feelings and meaning can be expressed simply, pithily and often amusingly. Finding suitable emojis and matching them to the eight worldly conditions helped create an overall picture that encapsulated the meaning of the sutta and provided a ready means of recalling the lessons of the course.
• A path of growing in wisdom
By nature everything is impermanent. The more we get drawn to feeling secure by holding on to things that are subject to change the more stressful our lives can become. At first this perception feels a bit scary. If I am not to be drawn to anything, what is the point of pleasure if I am not to be drawn to it, how do I embrace pain better without giving it my full attention?
In the discoveries experienced personally over the course of the last 6 weeks, I have found that the way to start developing a true happiness starts with metta. One can only really start appreciating the miracle that we exist in the first place by actually loving ourselves unconditionally. Once metta starts to develop, one is less tempted to get drawn in to coping strategies that are unskilful, stressful and subject to change. If one can observe a situation with skilful thoughts, without getting as emotionally involved, one can react accordingly. Self-appreciation with loving kindness then sharing that with others is mandatory for a healthy, happy balanced life. We are then less drawn to the 8 worldly conditions that are impermanent, stressful and subject to change.
Peter Harvey, who provided some very helpful notes and references.
References and translations:
The Lokavipatti Sutta by Thanissaro Bikkhu, at www.accesstoinsight.org
Equanimity – seven mental qualities, by Gil Fronsdal at www.insightmeditationcenter.org